THERE was drama in Kitwe’s Ndeke township yesterday when a woman caught her husband having sex with another woman suspected to be a sex worker.
Copperbelt Young Women Christian Association (YWCA) provincial co-ordinator Jurita Mutale confirmed the development in an interview yesterday.
She said the woman mobilised about 10 call-boys who went to the house of the alleged sex worker and burst into her bedroom where they found the two in the act.
Ms Mutale said the youths started whipping the two after which the man bolted through the back door with his clothes in his hands.
She said the youths dragged the suspected sex worker outside the house in full view of the members of the public and whipped her.
She said some elderly women who attempted to cover the woman were threatened with a beating.
“What happened is shameful and embarrassing. The call boys whipped the woman after they accused her of being a prostitute,” Ms Mutale said.
She said in the ensuing confusion, the alleged sex worker sneaked away and sought refuge in the neighbour’s house.
[Zambia Daily Mail]
You did very well to whip the Rats, they are spreading the deadly HIV virus which we are fighting tirelessly.
And am very happy that you did not even take them to Police because it would have been a waste of time. Hulle, hulle, hulle yakhantu……!!!!
The so called “sex worker” should sue for trespass and assault.Husband went to her house not the other way round.
How do you attack somebody in their own house,maybe she was not even a sex worker,what kind of anarchy is that?
Those are two consenting adults,why attack them as if they were doing it in public?
#2 I agree. What happened to human rights. This is barbarism and should not be tolerated. These are consenting adults doing whatever in private. If The Wife found the woman in her bed that is another matter and even then the best you are supposed to do is sue and not hire Kadobis to beat up an innocent woman trying to earn a living in public. Deal with your husband. Yes the victimized woman should sue for trespass, assault, public humiliation and also immediate payment of fees since they usually pay after the act.
I cant believe this.This is anarchy at its worst.Why are copperbelt kaponyas so unruly toward women.Last time they were stripping women dressed in Knee-high skirts based on the law passed in another country(TZ).The law take its course and protect everyone and not this nonsense.
I concur with # 2 & 3. The so called “sex worker” should sue the wife for acting like a BH!
Proisistution in Zambia is alive and for as long as these kaponyas cant afford to feed the young ladies they will continue to look for men who are able to look after them. Besides maybe this Ndeke woman is so ugly the husband is scared of being near her or she could be one of those who got impregnated for the sake of seeking monetory gain from the man.
But its not fair. she was just doing business and probably didn’t know he was married. the man should have been beaten instead. If you don’t want your family to eat bread and then they go and buy bread anyway do you go and start beating the baker? aweee
#1 That is typical warped opinionating! Before you moralise or evangilise, you should first ask yourself these basic questions: are the two involved people adults? Did they consent? what right did those goons have to attack them when they were having sex in private? The issue of the spread of HIV is out of place here.
drama in the ghetto…….it never ends. the story is too skeleto for you guys to conclude. how did the wife knew where the husband was? i suspect this “hule” is a long time lover to her hubby. which gives her every right.we are not told whether the so called ‘hule” knew whether the man was married. my gues is that she knew….they always know whether a man is married or not….in fact they love them married….but she stil went ahead? but correctly its the man’s fault.but in adultry, it always take two to tangle…so both received their dues for their sins.don’t protect the woman
What the call boys did was wrong. They should have left the two to enjoy themselves. No one has a right to enter the house without a permit. I would encourage the sex worker to sue the woman who mobilised the call boys.
Dabwiso says:
Its unfortunate that this mentality is still going on. so its always a woman’s fault that adultery is committed. # 1 you are right but its not only a woman spreading the HIV virus but also the man. get it right, HIV is not like Malaria which is only spread by a female mosquito NO!!!!!!! The young man could have probably been earning a living becoz our gvt has failed to provide employment for youths.
These are the consequences of marrying a woman you don’t really love. So if you are not married, take care not to marry someone who is 2nd, 3rd, 4th… choice. Anyway typical ghetto behavior/manners. That guy is nasty…just how many holes does he need to get satisfied…fooolish man!!!!
The root cause of problems is s**. Walk into a room of people, men and women and you can see it in the eyes that there are some who would like nothing better than to take off their clothes and get it on. It is this misguided thinking that s** is somehow wrong or dirty and let’s not forget the religious dogma – original sin. If people understood the power of s** – this alchemical union of two souls and that it was meant to be enjoyed and celebrated as part of one’s creation, people would stop being aggressive and greedy and a lot of other evils. S** is more than a physical act and no, I am not talking about the stuff you learn in your catechism/indocrination classes… Anywho what am I talking about? Admit it! you like s**, you want to have it right now! S** and death – 2 entwinned…
Just as much as we fighting this pandemic, we should realise that the pair had entered into a covenant. It wasnt some kind of rape arrangement. The best thing the wife should do is to file for divorce. The husband is unfaithfull. Thats just a drop in an ocean, we dont know how many other women he has “slept” with. The prostitute has a right to sue. Our constitution is mute on both prostitution and witchcraft.
# 9. I agree with this must have been a term relationship, we do not know what made the wife to act way she did maybe he doen’t even leave food home meanwhile he goes to impress the girlfriend. she did a good thing, men should lean to take care of their wivies before their girlfriends. Last month i witnessed the same incident in shoprite where a man was busy shopping for the girlfriend but there was no food at home, someone tipped the wife and she came, it was bad news………..
Its a pity that both parties were beaten up. I would encourage the real wife to sit down with the husband and iron out their differences. I guess there is something she is not giving the husband thats why he has opted to go and have it with a Sex Worker. Satisfy him even though they don’t get satisfied, he will not leave you for a sex worker.
These kaponyas and the so called wife should be charged with assault. Mob justice is not part of Zambia laws. Ba imbwa imwe
she is even lucky if it was in a muslin country this time noyu tulepema ngeuleuleta
It is a shame that the barbaric ‘instant justice’ jungle law still thrives in Zambia.
The kaponyas did a good job. Instant justice is part of Ghetto life and is even accepted by police. After all these hules are fond of bragging that they are more satisfying to the man than the wife.
Prostitution is just too rife in Zambia and most husbands have a girl friend or two. It has nothing to do with the wife being ugly or watery. Men just like sampling. Someone has even compared men to hunters who hunt for more than one type of game meat. And dont the Bembas say ubuchende bwa mwaume tabutoba inganda
There are three alleged crimes here:
1. man for adultery.
2. Wife for conspiracy to assault and behaviour likely to disturb the peace.
3. The call boys, for assault and behaviour likely to disturb the peace.
The unknown woman committed a sin but not an offence by law, because this happened in her own home and her home is not a brothel.
wether they consented or not,they were wrong and deserved to be shamed and taught lessons.I feel pity for whoever is trying to defend them on this blog in the name of human rights.Where are our morals kanshi?I like what the kaponyas did,atleast it has sent a message to would-be offenders !
#21 The Saint,which do you respect more ;Bible teachings or Zambian laws?
#20 and #23, Are you by any chance married women who have been victims of husbands with wondering eyes? You seem to want to punish this woman for the sins committed by your husbands against you. That is not justice. Looks like in your eyes every sex worker is responsible for your lousy bed affairs. Grow up and don’t blindly support barbarism in Zambia
#18 Zambia has laws and is not a Muslim country with barbaric laws of stoning. Our laws don’t support what happened. Can Women NGOs around the country step in and help this woman get justice. This is about women victimization and being blamed for everything in society and women need to step up and defend this woman who was beaten
Whoever has not sinned, let him/her cast the first stone
This primitive mentality must stop! Now everyone knows how TB looks like underneath… tss tss
Nyele bane. chaja chintu ni chabwino
I agree with all those who said the sex worker should sue. Surely, how does somebody just burst into your house and start calling you hule!! Since when was a person ever declared a hule in her own house!! And then the call boys let the man slip away so that the continue to embarrass the poor woman. Shame bane!!
This matter is between husband and wife.
The way I understand Zambian women she will still stay in the marriage.
I just hope its not Dora Siliya caught in the act….that woman.
What happens between two consenting adults in private is not any of my business. If anything, if the man is married, then the onus should be on him. The woman who is allegedly a sex-worker did not take him to her home by force. As for those saying that they are spreading HIV, what if they were using a condom? Are you telling me that none of the call-boys have never had intercourse with sex-workers or married women themselves? I hope the woman who was attacked in her own home sues so that this kind of backward and judgemental behaviour is curtailed. No law of the country was broken and for some of you quoting the bible, not all of us believe in some old book that was written thousands of years ago by people I have no connection with whatsoever.
No 25 – best comment ever!!!!
The boys did well infact they should have spreed her legs and added some chili in her nini. why can’t they find their own husband????
Why did they let the hubby sneak out without a good lashing. Is it still like in the old where the pharisees brought the woman, but no mention was made of the hubby or his whereabouts. I guess he had also sneaked like this kitwe hubby without being pursued. I pity our poor women. They are always the victims and yet they carry us nine months in their bodies.
#29 maybe your sentence should read…The way I understand women she will still stay in the marriage.
#35 Nachale – The sentence should read exactly the way it is. Zambia women never leave their marriages even if it is killing them. I hope you are not one of those mummy. There is more to life that staying in a toxic relationship.
#36 smells like exposure and experience deficiency…Women (in the americas, euros, asia, pacific asia and africa) never leave their marriages even if it is killing them FULL STOP! Otherwise, marriage would be extinct. Think about it.
PANTS ON THE GROUND……Looking like a fool with the pants on the ground \:d/\:d/
There are no morals in ethics. Everyone is right. The two who were doing it were right. The wife to the husband was right and the Kaponya’s too were right unless the law visits them. The sex worker was very right and those who whipped her were very very very very right. Even you bloggers you are right as long you are able to defend your cause and your opinion. So don’t judge them if you cannot lay your hands on them or else your are just boring us with your knowledge of human rights and the law. The people who whipped the whore do not even know that the law exists. What they were up to was to do their job with a pledge of pay upon completion. The money which they always look for at the market which law, bloggers and government cannot give them.
# 33 uleshako fimo nakupapata. Yaku iwe fionse kufikapo? Any way dont be hurt I’m just joking.
We condemn the Muslims for stoning women allegedly involved in sex outside marriage, but we are doing the same in Zambia. What a shame!
if i was the sex worker i would the *****s why should be beaten why not beat the husband yaba!!!
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give your husbands good sex ladies..or else..just like that!!
Too bad why ukuchinga insansa shabanabo ?
I just hope they had both reached their climax (orgasms) before the boys burst into the house.
This is unbelievable
As much as I do not support what the wife and call boys did to those that were at the climax of enjoying themselves, I don’t think it is okey for women to have s.e.x. with other pipo’s husband. They should take their appetite someone else or else let them be taught a lesson that is when they will learn.
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The wife is a thug. I thought ifintu kulandafye and not being violent.
donch kubeba.