A 44-year-old man of Lusaka’s Luangwa township forgave his wife who knelt before him and asked for forgiveness from him for having had a sexual binge with another man.
Josephine Zulu, 34, knelt before her husband at the Lusaka boma local court and asked for forgiveness.
“Please forgive me, I know that I have sinned against you and God…I promise to tell you in future if any man approaches me for love. I am ashamed of myself for the embarrassment I have caused you,” she said.
Zulu told the husband that she could not afford to lose the 17 years of marriage over a few minutes sexual satisfaction she had with another man.
This was in a case of adultery involving Aiwell Phiri, 44, of Luangwa township and Sam Singwa, 30, of Chipata township.
Phiri sued Singwa for compensation, alleging that he committed adultery with his wife.
Zulu told the court that Singwa had for a long time been proposing love to her, which one day led to him inviting her for a drink.
“I went to meet him at a bar not knowing that my children were drinking from there. After he bought me some drinks, he booked a room where we made love after which he gave me K150,000,” Zulu said.
She said as they were dressing up, her children appeared and started calling her a prostitute.
She described the scene as humiliating, especially that her own children caught her committing adultery.
Zulu said she had learnt her lesson and vowed never to accept any man’s proposal.
Earlier, Phiri told the court that he has been married to Zulu for 16 years and loves her so much that he cannot imagine life without her.
He said he did not know anything concerning his wife’s affair with Singwa until the day she was caught.
“I was home in the evening when I heard some noise from outside and when I went to check, I found a mob of people with my wife and Singwa at the centre…they were calling them prostitutes,” he said.
Phiri told the court that he spends a lot of money to make his wife look beautiful for himself and not Singwa.
But Singwa told the court that he was enticed by Zulu when the two met at the bar.
“I did not know that this woman is married. She told me that she is not married and begged me to have sex with her. She is the one the booked the room in which we had sex,” he said.
He said it is clear that Zulu loves him so much that she cast a spell on him to lose his mind over her.
“I am sorry for my actions. I was drunk and did not know what I was doing, I only realised after I had finished having sex with her…besides, the sex was not nice,” he said.
Senior presiding magistrate Regina Mumba, in passing judgment, said it was evident that Zulu and Sangwa had been having an affair for a long time.
Magistrate Mumba advised Singwa to desist from sleeping with married women.
She told Zulu that she was an embarrassment to the women as nature does not allow them to behave in such a manner.
The court order Singwa to compensate Phiri K15 million in monthly installments of K200,000.
[ Sunday Mail ]
Interesting comedy
Chi colour after waiona ati it waz not nice,u committed adultery damn u!
K150,000 for short time,ni tasinta escapee uyu!
makes laugh aloud
XYZ, “Xample yapa Zed”.Life mu ghetto ni Zee! No further comments!
Yaba…. in the name of Love……. lets be really the woman is a dame BITCh, and the husband is very stupid, if not an *****….. I bet the ka youngster didnt use a condom… Na fi AIDS yapa ZED ni ZEE!!…. Mudala…. maybe u hav a problem, try going traditional, Mudododo, Mupandula NINI….. we have too many muma markets!!:d
Yaba…. in the name of Love……. lets be really the woman is a dame B!TCH, and the husband is very stup!d, if not an id!ot….. I bet the ka youngster didnt use a condom… Na fi AIDS yapa ZED ni ZEE!!…. Mudala…. maybe u hav a problem, try going traditional, Mudododo, Mupandula NINI….. we have too many muma markets!!:d
This is bizarre!!! She is 34 and she has children old enough to go drinking in bars???? Are they her step children?? LT can you improve your reporting…………
Ndalya Live where are you, I am desperately waiting for your comment!
Mmmmm this guy is great….ati awe I cant lose her for she is sweet even if I share her with my friends.
This woman it sems she is Tasinta graduate bane. Emisango yabo .
And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery and said unto him, Master this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground as though he heard them not. So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself and said unto them, “He that is without sin among you, let him cast a stone at her.”
…and they went out one by one, beginning with the eldest, even unto the last. Then said Jesus
unto the woman: “…neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.”
hule wachendi..eish..man..how long are u doing to endure the torture..especially that ur children know..
Mudala bamukwesela but still says i can`t imagine a life without her..lol..it is also funny on that other hand for abena singwa to say that it wasn`t nice…ha ha ha awe pa zed ni ziko lamutendele.
bane kulya fye! eh. these are women, lets share them and feel kunona together. why shud another man starve when u have the goodies. thats why i like kufyalo, here we just eat each others women bane. awe ni live fye bane. deuces
New life my father, may God heal you for a brave choice you are among the few ten genuine men, Mum repent and believe the Gospel:-?:-?:-?
numbala 9 nizeee mune haha. walila? awe this woman is clearly an open pit mine. and the man said ati the bonkish did not nona, meaning she is quite loose or he is small. katwishi but clearly the woman is starved. she needs a massive one from citizens like myself. thats why i am proposing mu new constootion that they shud legalize what i like to call “satisfying broths”. these are public service providing houses where men would bring their women to be satisfied if they are failing to do so. bane satisfaction is a big issue that we men dont take into consideration, for us as long as we pwaaa ninshi chapwa, we are satisfied. i took 2 years training in sexual satisfaction, if you dont believe me, try me and bring yo wife. deuces
# 11 Nine Chale, & 15 kaka’ that good point…very few can do this. That is surely forgiveness and true love. That is the way God love us all sinners we may be but through his grace he will give us eternal life. It not because of hard work in Christianity, for those who are Christians., or being religious that we get saved..yes we make an effort but we are not good enough for eternal life, it all God’s abundant love and mercy that we are saved. What this man did, that is true love.May God Almighty Bless him and his wife abundantly and also May the Children know the gospel. For if they had sin the mum in a bad situation they should have revealed themselves before it happened rather than later so that the prevent the action from happening.
I personaly praise the hasband by showing that Human face which is Godly. Thanks only love can overcome all this human difficult i pray for you God to bless you and protect you in your life.
Very interesting story…..true love indeed
if we approach this case humanly we shall find that it shall be very difficult to forgive her,but in the christianity ream it’s possible..so wht tht man did is very gud and shows tht he is the true xstian..but before hving sex with her he shud make sure she goes under HIV check ups.bravo!!
Iwe #18 ndalya live; ati wlalande fye ifishinka! Abakashana nabena balafwaya ukwisa sana!! But men back home always thing of number one! Kuno ba gelo teti bekuleka ngatabalaisa! Ifwile wa isula isukulu ilyakufunda abanemsu ku Zedee!!
Why arethey calling it adultery instead of prostitution? What about the K150, 000 compensation? Where does it fit in the situation if this was not prostitution?[-x
iwe numbala 21 cha cheenay mwana! thats very true! ba gelo kufyalo vali shupa bane! its either she comes or u are not getting some bane!awe ine-iwe i like that observation. we need to work together wawumfwa? together we can make change! abena obama style bane. deuces
ati love!? li hule! fullu stop!
ati love?! li huule! fulu stop
Its amazing nowadays that even the act of making love itself has turned out to sound violent in Zambia. I don’t know why. May Ndalya Live help me understand. You would hear violent expressions like, Namuchita. How could a guy describe an act of expressing love for each other as though its an act of fighting? Ndalya Live my brother I want to hear your comment on this please.
how about phiri? did he have a role to play in this? could be that he connived with his wife to trap poor singwa for the mula. strange things happen
Phiri instructed his wife to do this for the money! People are becoming crafty with this RB economy
Ati forgiveness this is just foolishness and the reason why HIv is so prevalent. Forgiveness does not mean endorsing and re-engaging with a sinner. Forgiveness is you close the book and move on. Did you ever see the israelites forgving and then moving back to egypt? Did you see any disciple or the messiah forgiving and then going back to fratenise with the sinners ? Zambians have a twisted sense of understanding of what biblical forgiveness is. Once someone cheats on you they will always do it , you forgive and wish them all the best on their journey. Just becausee you forgive don’t expect a leopard to change it’s spots and when you screwed over again you only have yourself to blame
iwe ka slum dog walila?
such women u give it to them galu style . nizeee. deuces
Too many kids pa blog, i dont like the language thats being used on here nowadays. Hope the editor is taking note of this.
Its only sex afterall, maybe the guy couldn’t function properly, is there Viagra in Zed? My mum has 10 by ten different men, her husband who thought he was my father but is’nt is still with her! That is a reality pa Zed belive it or not. I only found out that “our poor dad” was not my dad when i turned 30. Thing is when he got paid, he flirted with other women or chased my mum, always remember……What men can do women can do better!!!
#32 msana wanzili Do not exhibit your ignorance on this forum.You cannot justify the vulgar language by shifting the blame on young people, I have worked with elderly men, much older than my father who have very bad language. Even here on this blog you will be shocked that some people using vulgar language are even older than you. In short its just about one’s character and not age. How old are you by the way?
#32 msana wanzili, Free advice, if you think you are too old for this forum and feel that there a lot of young people abusing the blog, then I am afraid it is about time you left!
Hahahahah! This was a well calculated move by Phiri and his wife. Just a few minutes of ‘not nice’ sex and now they have a K200,000 monthly income………..Pa zed teti bakuleke ulechi ubuhule. When you are caught, you be beaten
While! Even children are their to witness the shagged mother! What a world. Bane, mule chitilako ukutali. This woman does not need to get back into that ,marriage. She is a pervert. A woman who runs amock in shgging other women’s husband does not turn back. The litmus paper is the exctacy and pleasure she experiences from doing it with another man rather than hers of 16yrs. Probably there is a sexual disatisfaction in this marriage & there is nothing more important to a woman than right sex,fulfulling one, actually the crazier it gets the more woemn like it. For example her husband was at home, she would have just asked for it but opted to go and get shagged at a small room. Men! shagg your women full time or else you will learn it the hard way like Phiri has. Try chinese-acrobatically!
numbala 32! can u stop being a coward and say the names of the culprits?? typical zambian mentality, when some one is doing wrong u talk to them first and advise before taking matters to law. thats why we never change in zambia. glad am no longer zambian! va shiti imwe
Mau-less!!!
Bana Mudyela LIVE. The Man has infinite forgiveness. Elyo limbi umukashi balimufyompesha efyo akanwa takaliapo. Awe elyo akambe ama KISS with her, yaak!!! This lady clearly is a prostitute.Ha It reminds me of a verse that says who ever has not sinned be the first one to cast a stone on the women. Everyone scampered.
Mayo nafwa umusebanya ubukuli. N-way it can never be a society without such pipo and drama.
phiri has a plan this woman is a sure source of income.he doesnt need to sleep with her but trail her and raise more money…clever wise man from the east.
why not go out of town say kafue national park, ‘singwa boy’! I know women especially ‘house wives’ are selling their bodies just because of their appetite of looking good even when their husbands are making efforts to put everything in place. Men should also be wary of the vehicles they have bought for their housewives because they are being abused for meeting other men at ATMs and Lodges, am talking from experience.
thats very true.most men need education.too selfish.they satisfy themselves and thats it.please get advice from abakalamba
Wait a minute, this woman is 34 years old and been married for 17 years meaning she tied the note when she was 14 years old. She said her kid is 16 years old, now read thid “I went to meet him at a bar not knowing that my children were drinking from there. After he bought me some drinks, he booked a room where we made love after which he gave me K150,000,” Zulu said. Just what the hell were 16 year olds doing at the bar drinking beer? No wonder AIDS will never end in Zambia and the future for kids is all bleak.
Very interesting. I think my young brother you are among the few people who can toralate such un becoming behaviour of the so called wife. Iam sure it is not first and last time for that so called wife of yours to indulge herself in such dirty and shameful activities! Since she takes part in taking alchoho at tarvens and bars it will happen again. You are like “Senkete”, I dont know if you have read that bemba book. One day the beans will spill back on you! Your wife is not sincere. Un dressing inpresence of another man or woman who is not a spouse and seeing the neckedness in full view becomes normal, then we have become animals that can take turns!
pan nyo pako mukazi iwe